By Olivia Lush, legal courtesan at the World Famous Mustang Ranch
Now and then people ask me how such a “nice girl” like myself became a kinkster or fetishist. I frequently hear that I look lovely and sweet, and they can’t figure out how I found that the devious pleasures of fetish and sensual domination were something that had an erotic appeal to me. Naturism, or nudism as many like to call it, are very enjoyable and comfortable to me. I see no need to shock or impose my preferences on other people, but I will let you know a thing or two about it. Hold my hand, and I’ll guide you through my devious explorations.
Sensual things that were considered out of the ordinary caught my attention from an early age. I had a friend who was obsessed with my feet and convinced me to accompany him to a party where the men would lay on the floor and women would walk all over them barefoot or wearing sexy heels. The men were allowed with the ladies permission to kiss and massage their feet and lick and suck their toes (yes, I am smiling while writing). I’d never heard a man call a woman a mistress or goddess outside of a movie or theater. I thought it was a lot of fun, and extraordinarily amusing, but didn’t know it was a fetish, or even what the term fetish meant. I just thought they were looking for something different.
This same friend was the first person to introduce me to the swinger community, or the Lifestyle, as many like to call it. For me, it was liberating to be in an environment that allowed me to be more sincere about my wishes and desires and gave me the freedom to walk naked and admire other bodies without shame and stigma. Our group was hosted once a month at a mansion that belonged to a couple well known in the swinger community. We always looked forward to our next weekend of pleasure. The event would always start on a Friday evening with a theme party that could be anything from Arabian nights, sexy Halloween, dirty Disney, gypsy nights, and so on. Saturdays and Sundays were spent by the pool sunbathing or swimming au naturel. During the evenings, they would host dance parties that would turn into play parties for the ones interested in more adventure. There was no obligation or expectation to engage in anything you didn’t feel like, but the freedom and knowledge that you could, if you wished was incredibly arousing.
After I moved to the United States, I got involved with the BDSM community. Initially, via video (yes, I saw the famous Pandora’s Box Dungeon documentary several times), long-distance Skype classes, books and finally I was mentored by a professional dominatrix. I regularly attend community events like DomCon and try not to miss any new learning opportunities.
Subs and switches have my utmost respect, but when I am in a kinky adventure, I am always a Domme/Top. Switching or subbing is not something that catches my interest at all or even something I would ever consider doing again. I’ve tried it during my training period and found that it was not my piece of cake. I consider myself a sensualist. I enjoy a wide variety of activities like delightfully vanilla practices such as kissing, hugging, caressing someone’s body, giving a sensual massage, all the way to the devious pleasures of fetish and sensual domination. Tease and denial, fantasy cuckolding, financial domination, toys for boys, pegging, face slapping, and fisting all have a special place in my heart, but my kinky interests go way beyond that. Some of my other favorites BDSM practices and fetishes are body worship, chastity training, keyholder, crossdressing, sissification, edging, facesitting, smothering, foot, heel, boot, stocking worship, golden showers and champagne cocktails, JOI, light bondage, nipple torture, puppy play, role play and tickle torture.
The World Famous Mustang Ranch is the perfect place to practice naturism (nudism) with beautiful pools and hot tubs. And BDSM/Fetish play in the state of the art Dungeon Suite.
Many people are confused or even ashamed by their wishes and desires because they are different than what most of society considers to be normal. As long as your passions lead you to practices that are enjoyable and consensual to all involved, and all participants are of legal age, go ahead and have fun. Liberate yourself from everyday stresses and taboos. It’s a lot cheaper and more enjoyable than years of therapy. I would love to be your guide in this adventure.
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